Throughout the process of starting my business Miss Digital Media, I’ve had big mindset matters to deal with and overcome, my fear of failure and my fear of success, I was hugely lacking in confidence and self-belief. My general fear and lack mindset was stopping me from stepping out of my comfort zone and being visible to potential clients and customers. I felt paralysed. My mind was foggy, and I spent most days feeling stuck, like I was getting nowhere. Perhaps if I’d reached out for help from a coach such as Faye, I could have avoided such turmoil!
However, after doing a lot of work on my mindset, I pushed myself to identify my limiting thoughts and re-frame them. I have worked hard to clarify my mission and purpose in my business. I began looking in to the questions of why am I doing this business? Who am I helping? What problems am I solving? Where are my customers and how can I find them? This process has really helped me to make progress, all be it slower that I would like, and I’m still revisiting these questions as I continue on my business development journey.
I was meditating, and doing visualisations, and ideas about this and that kept coming to my mind, I was struggling to focus, and was bouncing between positive and negative emotions, depression and anxiety.
I felt so lost one day, just totally overwhelmed with it all, that I decided that I needed to focus on writing my first book ‘Boost your Brand with Books’. I wanted to do something practical and constructive, in the hope that stepping away from social media and all the ‘stuff and noise’ would give my mind a break from constantly comparing myself to others and the deep feelings of inadequacy.
Around the time I had also been taking part in various online training where I had gained lots of tips and advice about online marketing and ideal customers. These two things made the penny drop for me about my mission, my branding and who my ideal customers were – Coaches, Consultants and Creatives! I felt like things were starting to fall into place. It also made me realise that I know more than I give myself credit for! This was a bit of a turning point for me.
All these little steps have made up into big steps and I have taken positive action. I am continually working on my mindset, developing my branding and increasing my visibility. It’s all part of my journey in fulfilling my mission – which is to help others with the digital media skills and expertise that I have to share. More specifically to provide branding, design, online marketing support and training to self-employed businesses owners like myself, who don’t have the time skills or expertise to produce, publish and promote their content. I think that my mindset really held me back, and once I’d started doing the ground work on my mission and purpose things have started to become clearer, enabling me to have the confidence to be visible. Yay!
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